In this post I’m going to reveal what I believe is the no1 way to have confidence with women. You’re not alone if you find it a little daunting to approach a woman and this tip should help you overcome that.
And the big tip is simply to remember what a great guy you are and all the accomplishments you have achieved in your life.
A good way to get the confidence flowing is to make a big list on your phone of all the things that make you the catch of the century and then go and speak to women.
You will feel more secure and busting with confidence…
A lot of men believe that there are colors that attract women and they try to use this in there pick up routine. The fact is that no colour is going to get the girl if you’re a chump but wearing the right colors is all about looking at your best which is a big part of seduction.
If you have dark skin tone – try pink shirt and grey pants.
If you have a light skin tone – try a nice deep blue or even a cool mauve shirt.
Don’t spend too long on this color stuff, the main thing is that you try to be a cool guy.
In this post I’m going to give you a few words that attract women but this is not going to do what all the other bloggers do and just a list a lot of cheesy pick up lines. This post is all about words that you can say to yourself that make it more likely that you will be successful in your pick up attempts.
We call these words affirmation and what that means is that you say the same thing over and over again in your head then your subconscious mind start to believe it.
The power of cologne that attracts women has often been made to be far more than it is by greedy companies trying to make a lot of cash. We have all heard the old wives tale about a magic ingredient in the sweat of men that is irresistible to women!
Well any normal woman that I have ever met hates the smell of body odor so why don’t people use their common sense rather than believing every rumor under that sun?
It’s true that women are sensitive to the male pheromone around the time of ovulation but the effect it has on the woman have been disported by marketing men.
If you think your sticky, sweaty body is going to be attractive to a women you’re on drugs!
What women do find attractive is the smell of fresh sweat, but after a few minutes you and your clothes become repellent to her.
So what does all this have to do with cologne?
Well men using cologne that attracts women might not be having the effect they desire. Many of the studies in which a woman is presented with two chairs suggest that she will more often that not go for the chair with the attraction cologne on it. But this does not take into consideration that the pheromone can only be smelt close up so the woman already has to be sitting before it would take effect!
Cologne That Attracts Women Myth?
So it sounds great right? You spray a secret scent all over your body and have women flocking all around you. Well I’m here to tell you that attracting women with these colognes is a big scam.
The pheromone in the cologne produces a subtle felling of arousal in the woman, but she will have no idea where that arousal is coming from. So you might just help out another guy who tries it on with her.
YOU STILL NEED TO PICK HER UP ALL ON YOUR OWN.
The cologne may benefit you when you get her back to your place because she might feel more aroused and sexy…but as a pick up tool cologne is useless!
My advice is to forget all about silly tricks, pick up lines and forget about trying to hypnotize a women into bed.
To get with a girl you need just three things.
1. Find a guy who has no problem getting girls and copy the way he dresses.
2. Work on your confidence by speaking to 20 women everyday.
3. Spend 80% of your time with the woman listening to her talk.
These three simple steps would get you loads of women.
If you want to learn to attract women then this is the article for you. If you’re just sick of being on you own and have no idea how to get a women then read every word of this article.
We all feel a little bit shy in social situations.
I get a lot of emails each day from men who see no future romance because they hate to go out to clubs and feel like a fool at parties.
Well I’ve been able to give a lot of those men advice that has lead to long term relationships and I’ve finally decided to give those secrets away in public.
Learn to Attract Women in 7 Steps
* Get out there
Now I know this may sound like pulling teeth to you but the fact is that if you want to meet women you have to get out in the world. I’m not talking about horrible bars and clubs. What we want to do is start going to coffee shops, the mall and the library. These are all much better places to talk to women because you can actually be heard.
Make a plan to get out of the house once a day and speak to at least five new women. This will build your confidence through the roof because you will be under no pressure to find anyone right away.
* Learn to Attract Women with The confidence trick
This kind of connects to the first point but it works so well that I wanted to go into it in a little more details. What you want to do is go out of the house each day and ask 5 different women a question. After a while this will seem easy and when you go out to a party talking to women will be like nothing.
* Look your best
Ok this one is simple. You want to find a friend who has no trouble getting women and copy the way he dresses. You will probably find that her has smart clothes, a nice haircut and a great smell. Give yourself a head start with women by looking great.
* Trick of the eyes
You need to wear clothes that match the color of your eyes. I don’t know why this works but it kind of makes your eyes pop out your head and you will be very attractive.
I know when you feel under pressure you may start to talk about yourself like a babbling idiot but resist this urge. The best way to talk to women is to listen for 80% of the time and when it’s your turn to speak reflect back what she has said and empathize.
* Be positive
When you get into a conversation with a women make sure that you don’t go on and on about how rubbish your life is. Nobody wants to be around negative people because it’s depressing. Try and look for the positives but if you can’t just let her talk.
When my readers start to use these simple secrets they’re amazed at how easy it can be to attract women. Often men get stuck in a pattern where it seems like the hardest thing in the world.
Just remember that there is 4 billion women out there and if you mess up with a few of them who cares?
If you can’t approach women this post is for you because I’m going to let you in on a simple trick that will force you to try out your pick up tactics five or ten times in a day. If you ask that many girls out you will surely get dates.
The first thing you do is get $100 from the bank.
Give it to your wing man and tell him that you’re going to give him $10 every time a cute girl goes by and you don’t speak to her.
Each time you ask for a phone number you get $10 back.